Rachel and I had another visit to the midwife on Monday 25, this being 29 weeks I think. Again no possible problems evident other than R is a little larger but only by a tiny bit.

We had a few questions and will trot off to our next appointment, armed with a few more. Heard the heartbeat once again and that sounded alright.

We only live a few yards away from Paignton Zoo and have spent many an hour in there over the years, so became members some years ago. For the price of about three admission tickets you get all year round access to the zoo and get in free to other zoos such as Bristol and Newquay. Living so close means we can pop in for just a few minutes just for a wander when the weather is nice, or use the restaurant.

When we had to close Fred's savings accounts for tax reasons, we were having to think about where that money went. We did not want it to get consumed in our currents accounts so as to pay EDF or Council Tax, so put it aside for when we knew what to do with.

We approached the Zoo and asked whether we could have a memorial bench and plaque sited in the Zoo and their initial response is that they are asked this on many occasions and only do so if that person had an affinity with the Zoo or some connection. Luckily Fred lived some yards from the Zoo and we are Members too, so that was no problem, given that Fred would have been a regular customer anyway.

So that is sorted really, a bench is to go up near the Ape House and Lemur Wood and this overlooks the Gorilla and Orang Utan islands and lake. It is only 300 metres as the crow flies from our house, so is rather apt.

It will be one of the first benches in that area and is underneath the trees too, and I guess will be a stopping point for many a picnic by those using the Zoo.

It was nice to get a bench somewhere safe and a bit homely as some of the benches around here end up in the sea or used as firewood on the beaches by the local yoblets.

Once it is in position I will post a photograph.

We also have to arrange the headstone for Fred, and this is currently with the stone mason.

It is not that long until a year has passed since Fred was last with us, although we do get odd reminders of him quite unexpectedly. You may remember that just before Fred died a Red Admiral butterfly was hanging around the garden outside Fred's room at Exeter. I saw it, and noted you tend not to see as many butterflies around like when I was a child. A few minutes after Fred died, Rachel's mum June went outside and saw the butterfly.

Since then these butterflies turn up unexpectedly and we have seen more since Fred than in a long time. One was resting in the garage at home, one was found in the curtains at Rachels mum and dads and more recently one was flying around a charity shop in December looking for a way out on a very cold day.

My mum said recently that last year at around tea time a Red Admiral kept turning up to visit the herb bed, and did so for four or five evenings. Butterflies do not last live too long.

So next time you see a butterfly think of Fred.