Frederick James Wills

Born 19 March 2006 Died 2 May 2007


Thursday 3 April 2008

We had not seen the type of bench that the Zoo got for us, but it was made of sustainable materials and sourced in accordance with their conservation thinking.

It has been positioned overlooking the gorilla and orang utan islands, and faces our house which is 200 metres away. It was a lovely day and it was fairly quiet there. The bench is nice and sports a brass plaque, simply engraved “Precious Memories of Freddie Wills 19 March 2006 – 2 May 2007.”

It is a really nice quiet location that many people pass by. Whilst I was sitting on the bench Rachel noticed something rather strange. A few feet away, on the path sat a Peacock butterfly which was basking in the sun. It stayed there for a minute, enough time for me to get a close-up photograph, before fluttering off out of sight. Very strange. Those who have followed the ‘blog will have remembered the relevance of butterflies, as one appeared just after Fred died on the 2 May 2007. They have appeared in various situations since, even in the middle of winter.

As we set off back to the entrance a family came by and stopped and read the plaque. They noted that Freddie was just 13 months when he died, and went off explaining to their children, who were toddlers, what the bench was all about. Very sad in one way to hear strangers talking about our Fred in that way, but in another it was exactly why we wanted the bench.

3 comments:

MsCatMinder said...

The bench is beautiful and amazing that the butterfly would show up for you right on cue . Thank you for posting the photographs .
The plaque offers other families the chance to reflect on how precious life is , and is thus a tribute to you both, and a lasting memorial to your wonderful Freddie.
And doesn't Rachel look lovely !
Keep well ...
Shelagh

Hinsley Ford said...

Found you through dear Mscatcalls above. :) Ok, thanks for bringing on the tears. Can't wait to catch up on the blog and learn more about Freddie and your family. What a beautiful bench and what an incredible placement for a memorial to your child!

As a new visitor, I also want to balance out my praise for the bench and plaque with my sincere, sincere respect for the gravity of your loss, your apparent strength in the face of it...and everything else I can't quite put into words right now.

Sincerely,

Hinsley Ford

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful commemorative place to keep Freddie's memory alive...and the butterflies...the perfect addition. Hope all is well - Rachel and the babybump are looking good! xx